{"id":346,"date":"2026-05-01T16:11:23","date_gmt":"2026-05-01T16:11:23","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/cota.org\/cotaforevelynsheart\/?p=346"},"modified":"2026-05-02T16:24:12","modified_gmt":"2026-05-02T16:24:12","slug":"cheat-death-day","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/cota.org\/cotaforevelynsheart\/2026\/05\/01\/cheat-death-day\/","title":{"rendered":"&#8220;Cheat Death Day&#8221;"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>May 3rd will always be Evelyn\u2019s \u201cCheat Death Day.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I wanted to share this a couple days early, because it\u2019s a part of her story that shaped everything that came after in her journey ahead.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>At that point, she had already gone through two heart surgeries in just two weeks, and we were preparing for her third, a surgery to replace her pacemaker after an infection. She was taken back to the OR at 7:30am. We were told, \u201cno news is good news.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Until it wasn\u2019t.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Around noon, I remember looking over at Ross. Neither of us said a word, but we both felt it, something wasn\u2019t right. That kind of heaviness you can\u2019t explain, but you know.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>At 12:15pm, instead of the usual update call, her cardiologist and the head doctor walked into our room. And in that moment, everything changed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>They told us Evelyn had gone into cardiac arrest during surgery. There had been a puncture that hit her heart, and she bled out. They performed open chest CPR for 3 minutes before they were able to get her pulse back.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Three minutes that felt like a lifetime. Three minutes that could have taken everything from us.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>This day will forever be one of the hardest days of our lives, for me as her mom, and for Ross as her dad.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>But it\u2019s also the day Evelyn fought in a way most people will never understand.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>She\u2019s still here. And that means everything.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large is-resized\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/cota.org\/cotaforevelynsheart\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/6643\/2026\/05\/evelyn-cheat-death-day-1024x1024.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-347\" style=\"width:417px;height:auto\" srcset=\"https:\/\/cota.org\/cotaforevelynsheart\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/6643\/2026\/05\/evelyn-cheat-death-day-1024x1024.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/cota.org\/cotaforevelynsheart\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/6643\/2026\/05\/evelyn-cheat-death-day-300x300.jpg 300w, https:\/\/cota.org\/cotaforevelynsheart\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/6643\/2026\/05\/evelyn-cheat-death-day-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/cota.org\/cotaforevelynsheart\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/6643\/2026\/05\/evelyn-cheat-death-day-768x768.jpg 768w, https:\/\/cota.org\/cotaforevelynsheart\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/6643\/2026\/05\/evelyn-cheat-death-day.jpg 1440w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-how-you-can-help\">How You Can Help<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>We&#8217;re getting ready for Evelyn&#8217;s birthday and the\u00a0big fundraiser garage sale for\u00a0COTA for\u00a0Evelyn&#8217;s Heart! Thank you to everyone who has donated items to the garage sale and reached out to help celebrate Evelyn&#8217;s birthday! If you want to send a birthday card, visit the\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/people\/Hearts-for-Evelyn\/61567380579056\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Facebook page<\/a>\u00a0for instructions on how to get a hold of Kelly.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Garage Sale Details:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>June 4 &#8211; 6<br>Location: 7040 Eagle Trail, Centerville, MN<br>Time: Thurs and Fri- 8am to 5pm<br>Sat- 8am to 12pm<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/wl.donorperfect.net\/weblink\/weblink.aspx?name=cota&amp;id=27&amp;dpgid=COTAforEvelynsHeart&amp;dpgsol=PTOL&amp;dpg_frname=Evelyn+Otto\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" target=\"_blank\">Click Here to Donate Now<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.bonfire.com\/cota-for-evelyns-heart\/\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" target=\"_blank\">Get your &#8220;Hearts for Evelyn&#8221; T-Shirt<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/people\/Hearts-for-Evelyn\/61567380579056\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Join our &#8220;Hearts for Evelyn&#8221; Facebook Group<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>What makes our partnership with COTA so great is that they will be with Evelyn throughout her lifetime. 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