{"id":267,"date":"2025-10-26T16:47:33","date_gmt":"2025-10-26T16:47:33","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/cota.org\/cotaforteamham\/?p=267"},"modified":"2025-10-26T16:47:33","modified_gmt":"2025-10-26T16:47:33","slug":"sunflowers-dandelion-wishes","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/cota.org\/cotaforteamham\/2025\/10\/26\/sunflowers-dandelion-wishes\/","title":{"rendered":"Sunflowers &amp; Dandelion Wishes"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full is-resized\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"2560\" height=\"1808\" src=\"https:\/\/cota.org\/cotaforteamham\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/6381\/2025\/10\/IMG_8702-scaled.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-284\" style=\"width:670px;height:auto\" srcset=\"https:\/\/cota.org\/cotaforteamham\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/6381\/2025\/10\/IMG_8702-scaled.jpg 2560w, https:\/\/cota.org\/cotaforteamham\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/6381\/2025\/10\/IMG_8702-300x212.jpg 300w, https:\/\/cota.org\/cotaforteamham\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/6381\/2025\/10\/IMG_8702-1024x723.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/cota.org\/cotaforteamham\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/6381\/2025\/10\/IMG_8702-768x542.jpg 768w, https:\/\/cota.org\/cotaforteamham\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/6381\/2025\/10\/IMG_8702-1536x1085.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/cota.org\/cotaforteamham\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/6381\/2025\/10\/IMG_8702-2048x1446.jpg 2048w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 2560px) 100vw, 2560px\" \/><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">Visit with Great Grandma &#8211; 99 years old!<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-hello-dear-family-and-friends\">Hello, dear family and friends!<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>As I sit here reflecting, I\u2019m struck by how far and wide you all are \u2013 scattered across the globe, yet still so close in heart. Technology, for all its quirks and frustrations, remains a powerful tool that keeps us connected. Wherever you are, please know how deeply grateful we are for you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-medical-update\">Medical Update<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Alongside routine heart appointments, Eli recently underwent surgery to address complications with screws and plates in his jaw, plus an additional procedure. He\u2019s recovering well, and we anticipate another surgery ahead. Post-transplant surgeries are more complex due to anti-rejection medications and other post-transplant care needs, so we\u2019re hopeful to complete craniofacial procedures beforehand.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>We remain on standby for the heart transplant call. It\u2019s a surreal kind of waiting, knowing that life could pivot in an instant. I think about it in the most random places: mid-dental procedure, still numb, or halfway through a haircut, dripping wet and sprinting out with my cape still on. I\u2019m sure you can imagine a few laugh-worthy scenarios!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>While Eli is currently low priority on the transplant list and Kya is navigating the listing process, we\u2019re working through complex care decisions. The variables are unpredictable, and with more than one child to consider, it\u2019s a balancing act between individual needs and family well-being. I should also mention, they are no longer \u201cchildren\u201d, but young adults.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-gallery has-nested-images columns-default is-cropped wp-block-gallery-1 is-layout-flex wp-block-gallery-is-layout-flex\">\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"768\" height=\"1024\" data-id=\"310\" src=\"https:\/\/cota.org\/cotaforteamham\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/6381\/2025\/10\/IMG_9476-768x1024.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-310\" srcset=\"https:\/\/cota.org\/cotaforteamham\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/6381\/2025\/10\/IMG_9476-768x1024.jpg 768w, https:\/\/cota.org\/cotaforteamham\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/6381\/2025\/10\/IMG_9476-225x300.jpg 225w, https:\/\/cota.org\/cotaforteamham\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/6381\/2025\/10\/IMG_9476-1152x1536.jpg 1152w, https:\/\/cota.org\/cotaforteamham\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/6381\/2025\/10\/IMG_9476-1536x2048.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/cota.org\/cotaforteamham\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/6381\/2025\/10\/IMG_9476-scaled.jpg 1920w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 768px) 100vw, 768px\" \/><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">Doc office waiting<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"768\" data-id=\"309\" src=\"https:\/\/cota.org\/cotaforteamham\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/6381\/2025\/10\/IMG_9474-1024x768.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-309\" srcset=\"https:\/\/cota.org\/cotaforteamham\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/6381\/2025\/10\/IMG_9474-1024x768.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/cota.org\/cotaforteamham\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/6381\/2025\/10\/IMG_9474-300x225.jpg 300w, https:\/\/cota.org\/cotaforteamham\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/6381\/2025\/10\/IMG_9474-768x576.jpg 768w, https:\/\/cota.org\/cotaforteamham\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/6381\/2025\/10\/IMG_9474-1536x1152.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/cota.org\/cotaforteamham\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/6381\/2025\/10\/IMG_9474-2048x1536.jpg 2048w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">Doc office waiting (Eli)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"768\" height=\"1024\" data-id=\"308\" src=\"https:\/\/cota.org\/cotaforteamham\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/6381\/2025\/10\/IMG_9473-768x1024.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-308\" srcset=\"https:\/\/cota.org\/cotaforteamham\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/6381\/2025\/10\/IMG_9473-768x1024.jpg 768w, https:\/\/cota.org\/cotaforteamham\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/6381\/2025\/10\/IMG_9473-225x300.jpg 225w, https:\/\/cota.org\/cotaforteamham\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/6381\/2025\/10\/IMG_9473-1152x1536.jpg 1152w, https:\/\/cota.org\/cotaforteamham\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/6381\/2025\/10\/IMG_9473-1536x2048.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/cota.org\/cotaforteamham\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/6381\/2025\/10\/IMG_9473-scaled.jpg 1920w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 768px) 100vw, 768px\" \/><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">Doc appointment &#8211; just a little nap <\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-caregiver-chronicles-mom-mode\">Caregiver Chronicles: Mom Mode<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>If you know me well, you know I don\u2019t sit still easily. A recent personality profile confirmed a few things you probably already suspect:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li class=\"has-small-font-size\">Momentum is sacred &#8211; I don\u2019t tolerate losing it<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li class=\"has-small-font-size\">Repetition? No thanks<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li class=\"has-small-font-size\">Attention to detail? Limited<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li class=\"has-small-font-size\">Technical issues and delays? I married a computer guy for a reason \ud83d\ude0a<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li class=\"has-small-font-size\">Problem-solving? Aggressive<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li class=\"has-small-font-size\">Impatient and stubborn? Allegedly<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li class=\"has-small-font-size\">A whirlwind of activity who occasionally pauses just long enough to rewrite the rulebook \u2013 yep<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large is-resized\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"768\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/cota.org\/cotaforteamham\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/6381\/2025\/10\/IMG_8664-768x1024.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-297\" style=\"width:299px;height:auto\" srcset=\"https:\/\/cota.org\/cotaforteamham\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/6381\/2025\/10\/IMG_8664-768x1024.jpg 768w, https:\/\/cota.org\/cotaforteamham\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/6381\/2025\/10\/IMG_8664-225x300.jpg 225w, https:\/\/cota.org\/cotaforteamham\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/6381\/2025\/10\/IMG_8664-1152x1536.jpg 1152w, https:\/\/cota.org\/cotaforteamham\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/6381\/2025\/10\/IMG_8664-1536x2048.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/cota.org\/cotaforteamham\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/6381\/2025\/10\/IMG_8664-scaled.jpg 1920w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 768px) 100vw, 768px\" \/><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">Gas station fun while traveling to MO<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Now, here\u2019s a snapshot of recent caregiving moments:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li class=\"has-small-font-size\">Managing 30+ prescriptions, including insurance authorizations \u2013 plus three meds for the dog. \ud83d\ude0a<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li class=\"has-small-font-size\">A 15-minute doctor visit took four hours door-to-door, including 75 minutes of driving and lots of waiting<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li class=\"has-small-font-size\">Juggling multiple medical portals and passwords (thank you, tech-savvy husband, for the password manager system)<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li class=\"has-small-font-size\">Constant Follow-up: tracking who I spoke to, when, their role, and next steps \u2013 then following up\u2026again<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li class=\"has-small-font-size\">Coordinating care with 20+ active medical providers for Kya and Eli \u2013 not including Eric or me (or the vet for the pets)\ud83d\ude0a<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-bringing-it-together\">Bringing it Together<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Despite our decades of experience navigating medical care and professional experience as a Social Worker, I often feel wildly ill-equipped for this role &#8211; my personality often works against me. I\u2019m often a raging, frustrated, ready-for-a-fight mom before I even make it through the clinic parking garage. Just writing this has me taking deep breaths. It\u2019s okay to laugh \u2013 laughter is the best medicine.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>This important role demands tremendous effort. I\u2019m easily drained by details and thrown off by shifting appointments. The care system is brutal to navigate. I often think about patients navigating it alone, overwhelmed by financial burdens. I often feel helpless\u2026 powerless. I\u2019m at the mercy of a system I can\u2019t move or fix in the short term (if ever) and it breaks my heart. &nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I\u2019ve learned to be more gracious with myself, more accepting of how I function and what I need to balance energy in and out. We\u2019re doing our best to meet needs while creating a meaningful, beautiful life. I\u2019m deeply thankful for a flexible job that allows me to be present. We\u2019re grateful for the possibility of transplant and extended life &#8211; but that doesn\u2019t erase the grief of dreams deferred, or the exhaustion of endless logistics and complicated decision-making. Watching your children wrestle with physical and emotional burdens doesn&#8217;t soften the ache.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-gallery has-nested-images columns-default is-cropped wp-block-gallery-2 is-layout-flex wp-block-gallery-is-layout-flex\">\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"768\" height=\"1024\" data-id=\"313\" src=\"https:\/\/cota.org\/cotaforteamham\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/6381\/2025\/10\/IMG_0977-768x1024.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-313\" srcset=\"https:\/\/cota.org\/cotaforteamham\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/6381\/2025\/10\/IMG_0977-768x1024.jpg 768w, https:\/\/cota.org\/cotaforteamham\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/6381\/2025\/10\/IMG_0977-225x300.jpg 225w, https:\/\/cota.org\/cotaforteamham\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/6381\/2025\/10\/IMG_0977-1152x1536.jpg 1152w, https:\/\/cota.org\/cotaforteamham\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/6381\/2025\/10\/IMG_0977-1536x2048.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/cota.org\/cotaforteamham\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/6381\/2025\/10\/IMG_0977-scaled.jpg 1920w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 768px) 100vw, 768px\" \/><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">Eli and Angelia &#8211; who will get the hammock?<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"768\" height=\"1024\" data-id=\"312\" src=\"https:\/\/cota.org\/cotaforteamham\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/6381\/2025\/10\/IMG_9678-768x1024.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-312\" srcset=\"https:\/\/cota.org\/cotaforteamham\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/6381\/2025\/10\/IMG_9678-768x1024.jpg 768w, https:\/\/cota.org\/cotaforteamham\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/6381\/2025\/10\/IMG_9678-225x300.jpg 225w, https:\/\/cota.org\/cotaforteamham\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/6381\/2025\/10\/IMG_9678-1152x1536.jpg 1152w, https:\/\/cota.org\/cotaforteamham\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/6381\/2025\/10\/IMG_9678-1536x2048.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/cota.org\/cotaforteamham\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/6381\/2025\/10\/IMG_9678-scaled.jpg 1920w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 768px) 100vw, 768px\" \/><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">The Ham Fam<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"768\" height=\"1024\" data-id=\"295\" src=\"https:\/\/cota.org\/cotaforteamham\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/6381\/2025\/10\/IMG_8654-768x1024.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-295\" srcset=\"https:\/\/cota.org\/cotaforteamham\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/6381\/2025\/10\/IMG_8654-768x1024.jpg 768w, https:\/\/cota.org\/cotaforteamham\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/6381\/2025\/10\/IMG_8654-225x300.jpg 225w, https:\/\/cota.org\/cotaforteamham\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/6381\/2025\/10\/IMG_8654-1152x1536.jpg 1152w, https:\/\/cota.org\/cotaforteamham\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/6381\/2025\/10\/IMG_8654-1536x2048.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/cota.org\/cotaforteamham\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/6381\/2025\/10\/IMG_8654-scaled.jpg 1920w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 768px) 100vw, 768px\" \/><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">Gas station fun while traveling to MO<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-dandelions-and-sunflowers\">Dandelions and Sunflowers<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>We moved into a new house when Kenny, our firstborn, was five years old. He boldly declared we had \u201cthe best yard on the street!\u201d His reasoning? \u201cWe have the most flowers!\u201d Our yard was full of dandelions.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>When Kenny died at 14, six-year-old Kya picked a handful of dandelions for him as we walked into the building where his funeral service was held. Over time, dandelions and sunflowers have become symbolic of Kenny\u2019s bright spirit. I planted sunflower seeds this year, but not one survived the rain. Dandelions, though? They\u2019re resilient, wild, and unstoppable.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-pullquote\" style=\"margin-top:var(--wp--preset--spacing--20);margin-right:var(--wp--preset--spacing--20);margin-bottom:var(--wp--preset--spacing--20);margin-left:var(--wp--preset--spacing--20);padding-top:var(--wp--preset--spacing--20);padding-right:var(--wp--preset--spacing--20);padding-bottom:var(--wp--preset--spacing--20);padding-left:var(--wp--preset--spacing--20)\"><blockquote><p><strong>The Dandelion<\/strong><br><em>A dandelion breathes into this field<\/em> <br><em>A thousand wishes waiting to be revealed.<\/em><br><em>A field of love and of possibility<\/em> <br><em>An opening up to graceful vulnerability.<\/em><br><em>A dandelion cries in this field<\/em><br><em>A grief much too large to shield<\/em><br><em>A field of heartbreak and of sorrow.<\/em> <br><em>Holding onto hope for tomorrow.<\/em> <br><em>A dandelion in this field<\/em><br><em>Shows a strength we all can wield.<\/em><br><em>In a field of both sunshine and rain,<\/em> <br><em>A dandelion can only create from its pain.<\/em><br>~ Shayna Rose Maharaj<\/p><\/blockquote><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-across-the-wind\">Across the Wind<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>So here we are, balancing the tension between hope and heartbreak, between logistics and love. We\u2019re still showing up, still laughing, still planting seeds even when the forecast is uncertain. Like dandelions, we rise through cracks, carried by wind and memory, rooted in the wild beauty of what remains. Thank you for walking with us, for holding space, and for reminding us that even scattered across the globe, like blown dandelion seeds, we are never truly alone.<\/p>\n\n\n<div id=\"block-block_5bacd19d47e2cd747c64a719167d5f39\" class=\"block block--widget-galleries \">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"thumbnail\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"2560\" height=\"1808\" src=\"https:\/\/cota.org\/cotaforteamham\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/6381\/2025\/10\/IMG_8702-scaled.jpg\" class=\"attachment-full size-full wp-post-image\" alt=\"\" srcset=\"https:\/\/cota.org\/cotaforteamham\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/6381\/2025\/10\/IMG_8702-scaled.jpg 2560w, https:\/\/cota.org\/cotaforteamham\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/6381\/2025\/10\/IMG_8702-300x212.jpg 300w, https:\/\/cota.org\/cotaforteamham\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/6381\/2025\/10\/IMG_8702-1024x723.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/cota.org\/cotaforteamham\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/6381\/2025\/10\/IMG_8702-768x542.jpg 768w, https:\/\/cota.org\/cotaforteamham\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/6381\/2025\/10\/IMG_8702-1536x1085.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/cota.org\/cotaforteamham\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/6381\/2025\/10\/IMG_8702-2048x1446.jpg 2048w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 2560px) 100vw, 2560px\" \/>\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"inner-content\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"post--content--title\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<a href=\"https:\/\/cota.org\/cotaforteamham\/photos\/summer-early-fall-fun-2025\/\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\tSummer &amp; Early Fall Fun &#8211; 2025\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/a>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/h2>\n\t\t\t\t\t<p class=\"posted-date\"><span class=\"posted-on\">Posted <span><time class=\"entry-date published updated\" datetime=\"2025-10-26T16:09:08+00:00\">October 26, 2025<\/time><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t<a class=\"all-posts\" href=\"https:\/\/cota.org\/cotaforteamham\/photos\/\">See All Photos &raquo;<\/a>\n\t<\/div>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Hello, dear family and friends! As I sit here reflecting, I\u2019m struck by how far and wide you all are \u2013 scattered across the globe, yet still so close in heart. Technology, for all its quirks and frustrations, remains a powerful tool that keeps us connected. 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