A Parent’s Point of View: Two Years with Kidney Disease, FSGS

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    Take a moment to imagine a happy life with your young children and then one day…
    -You bring your eldest to the doctor to treat allergies only to find out the symptoms are from her kidneys malfunctioning and she is diagnosed with Nephrotic Syndrome, a rare kidney disease.
    -As you are just learning about Nephrotic Syndrome, in general, you find out there are several types: if “Genetic”,your other child might be susceptible as well but “more treatable”. If “non-genetic”, your other child is in the clear, but your diagnosed child will have a tougher time. Which outcome do you even hope for?
    -You wait for tests.
    -Your child has emergency trips to the hospital for extreme swelling in her entire body, known as edema and high blood pressure.
    -You go to work, pay bills, grocery shop, all while the back of your brain is constantly wondering what will happen.
    -You tell her “no” for what seems like the millionth time to her favorite foods because it will
    cause her body pain within hours and will speed up her kidney failure.
    -Your child spends most of the day on the couch in pain and too tired and uncomfortable to hold or play with.
    -There are more tests and more waiting for results.
    -Your toddler misses you while you are at the hospital (again) with your sick child, but you can’t be in two places at once
  • -Your child has a kidney biopsy and is more specifically diagnosed with Focal Segmental

    Glomerulosclerosis (FSGS), a serious condition that can lead to kidney failure, for
    which the only treatment options are dialysis or kidney transplant.
    -Your child must take a special pill to eat a “treat” and even that is limited and must
    be watched carefully.
    -You try to keep the inevitable from happening by tracking and enforcing a strict
    diet and watching each mg of sodium, potassium, water intake, sugar, etc. because
    even healthy foods such as certain fruits can trigger edema, high or low blood
    pressure, and body pains.
    -No more play dates or school for fear of catching anything while her immune
    system is low.
    -Your preschooler has been taken out of daycare to prevent bringing any germs
    home (and this is before COVID).
    -Your daughter is hiding in fear from you to avoid the weekly, painful shot YOU MUST
    administer to her or she will have to be admitted back into the hospital.
    -You promise your family you won’t work and finally enjoy a break on a 3-day weekend with
    them only to have an emergency trip to the hospital.
    -Celebrating even the smallest smiles and multiple days at home because they are rare at
    times.
    -Your spouse and youngest regularly make 2-hour round trips to the hospital and meet outside just to spend some time together only to be separated again with 2 at the hospital and 2 at home.
    -At age 5, your child has surgery foanesthesia for a kidney biopsy
    -A week after her 7th birthday, your child has surgery to insert aQperitoneal dialysis (PD) catheter so she may receive dialysis daily.
    -Not even a year later, your child has nephrotic surgery to remove both kidneys that no matter what you did and how hard you tried to prevent it from happening, they finally reached stage 5renal failure.
    -You and your spouse get tested, hoping every day one of you is a match to donate.
    -Labs are lost, tests must be re-done, you wait.
    -And wait.
    -You finally get approved to donate and now worry about the upcoming double surgeries.
    -Your greatest wish is that your family can be happy and healthy together.
     
    This is only a small glipmse into the pain, stress and turmoil a parent experiences when their child has a chronic organ disease.  It’s almost impossible to describe the toll it takes on one menally, physically or emotionally.  That’s why we have created this support page for Eliana and her family.  We know that if the financial burden can be lifted from this family at least they will have some small allevaition from all of this suffering.  Please share, like and donate to show your support for this loving family and special little girl.
     

Eliana Dysart

Marietta, GA

Transplant Type: Kidney

Transplant Status: Waiting for Transplant

Goal: $75,000.00

Raised: $65,296 of $75,000 goal

Raised by 272 contributors

One thought on “A Parent’s Point of View: Two Years with Kidney Disease, FSGS

  1. Our hearts are broken too. We wish we could take away the pain of the latest news. We are hoping for a miracle and we are here if you need us for anything. Eliana is a strong young lady. She is such a light in this world.
    All our Love,
    Deanna (and Fritz)

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